Tuesday, December 15, 2015

Catching Up and Some Thoughts


Hello everyone!  I'm still around and ready...almost...for Christmas!  I will be heading out to finish the shopping as soon as I finish this post.  Are you busy getting ready for Christmas or have you finished and are now sitting back and enjoying your prettily decorated home?



I had to push myself to get all the dust the bathroom project created out of my house and get the trees up, but it's all done and I'm glad I kept going even though I might have been heard grumbling a time or two.  



My little audience might have heard me saying things like "why can't Christmas be in January...it's too close to Thanksgiving" and "I hate putting the lights on the tree".


The bathroom is finished except for a few pieces that need staining and the oak board on the divider will get a few coats of clear varnish.  I haven't hung anything on the walls yet in the way of decor.  That will take some thought when things slow down a bit.  


Actually, things are slowing down until after Christmas.  Let's just say the electric wiring is driving BG nuts and we had a family meeting and decided to take a break.  Our daughter didn't want him hurting himself trying to finish so she could move in before Christmas.  Besides that, a water line downstairs sprung a leak...twice...and needed fixing.  That took up some of his time. 

Another deciding factor in the postponement on the work on The Project was that her fella J had some health issues recently.  In fact, J got to ride in the ambulance to the emergency room when he had a seizure in the middle of the night.  He is diabetic and it was found that he had been getting too much insulin via the pump.  He's doing better now, but it was a scare.


Kim and J have painted most of the rooms and J made a clever cover-up for the ugly tile that was on the corner fireplace hearth.  He had a piece of sheet metal cut to size and spray painted it black, then used some leftover oak flooring for the surround.  We think it turned out great!

I'll share more photos of the rooms after Christmas.  When BG gets the wiring figured out, it shouldn't be too long before it's ready to move in.  The wiring was done in a haphazard fashion.  And a hazard it could be, because BG found some frayed wires in the attic.  Needless to say, they are now disconnected.


I am glad for a break from "projects"!  After the bathroom was painted by moi with help from BG who painted around the ceiling, and the new trim stained or painted, my hand was cramping and swollen.  I am ready to retire from DIY jobs!  


We had our children here over the weekend.  Our son and his girl, L, and daughter and J were here Sunday for pizza.  L brought us a beautiful poinsettia for Christmas.  I will be careful to watch that the kitties don't nibble on it.

I haven't been too busy to keep up with the news.  It's hard to ignore it, much as I'd like to.  I have read a few blogs also when I sit down to relax, but I haven't tried to comment.  Some I would have liked to comment on, but it was just as well I didn't.  


Now, I have to say something that doesn't fit into the sweetness and light that we hope for in our blog posts most of the time.  Not everyone has the same view or opinions, of course.  I respect your right to your opinion even though I may strongly disagree with you.  I hope you will respect mine.  

Someone, the one I wanted to comment on but knew it would be better not to, was railing against guns in one blog post and suggested some chapters in the Bible that those of us who are for the 2nd Amendment needed to read.  Then she went on in another post about how we are to be tolerant and just love each other regardless of what country we're from and how heartless we idiots...yes, she did say that in response to a comment...are when we don't want to let certain people come into our country.  She was speaking particularly about the latest suggestion from a presidential candidate about stopping those people from coming in for a season.  Which has been done before and is constitutional by the way.  

I'm all for loving and respecting my fellow men and women no matter their color or nationality.  What I'm not for is letting people into our country who can't be vetted properly while we have this group who hate us and want nothing more than to destroy us.  As they have said themselves and we've already seen what they are capable of here as well as overseas.  And just for the record, I'm not endorsing any presidential candidate as yet.  There is a long way to go before the election.

I'm getting worried.  Just here in Missouri, there have been multiple cell phones bought by...shall we say...foreign men.  A hunter found a stockpile of explosives in a wooded area that were said to not be something that would be purchased for recreational purposes.  Although the sheriff of that county tried to downplay the possibility the explosives were tied to terrorism, it also was stated that they really didn't know that for sure.  Who knows what is next?  I am not naive enough to think that just loving people will change their minds or goals.

And about guns.  I am NOT for assault weapons.  In my humble opinion, no one needs them but perhaps the military and law officers.  But having a gun for protection or for hunting is perfectly okay in my book.  Maybe I partially feel that way because I grew up in a community where everyone had guns for hunting.  We were used to being around them.   

My father bought me a gun when I was 17 years old.  I had driven to our small country church one Sunday by myself.  I don't remember now why my family didn't go as they usually did.  Maybe it was during Vacation Bible School, I can't remember.  Anyway, I was the first one to leave and as I pulled out of the driveway and headed down the gravel road, I saw a car pulled over on the shoulder.  As I passed by, I looked over and saw a lone man in the vehicle.  I went on and then noticed in my rearview mirror that he had pulled out and was following me.  I got a bit worried and sped up.  So did he.  Even though there were some sharp curves in the as yet unpaved gravel road, I noticed he was keeping up with me.  As I turned left onto the other road that would take me to the turn off to our farm, I really floored it because that road while hilly was very straight.  I could see that he was trying to keep up, but the dust from the gravel and my speed kept me ahead enough that I whipped into our lane and saw him cruise on by.  Of course, I immediately told my parents and my dad called the sheriff with the description of the car I gave him.  In our community, everyone knew each other's vehicles and I had never seen this one before or the man, either.  That is when my dad soon after brought home a gun for me to carry when I was by myself.  

I tell all this because if you've ever had a scare like that, it makes you feel safer to know you have protection when you are alone.  At least, it did me.  No, I never had to use that gun.  But I would have used it if push came to shove.  I wish someone in these latest horrible situations had had a gun.  It might have saved a life.

Okay, enough of that.  I have some travel plans to share, but will wait for another post to tell about them when I have more space.  I have talked too much already, as usual.  I do have a question for you before I run along, if you don't mind my asking.  What is your favorite Christmas candy/cooky to make?
  
xo Cheryl  

29 comments:

  1. Cherly, I loved all your pretty things. When I saw the cats on the table...whats' for dinner?? LOL.. Looks like your cats like the décor too. I'll come back later and read the last part of your post. Blessings, xoxo,Susie

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    1. Thanks, Susie. Those who don't have cats are surely appalled by the idea of having cats sitting on your table, but there's no stopping them when they make up their minds where they want to lounge! lol! I buy lots and lots of Clorox Wipes and clean, clean, clean. :)

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  2. Thanks for the update, as one who has remodeled I know exactly what you have gone through, isn't it wonderful that when we see the final results we say~ Whew, it was worth it, but no more remodeling for now"!~smile~ Everything looks beautiful, Cheryl, I think your dh taking a break to enjoy Christmas is wonderful! and I pray J is feeling better too!

    I agree with all that you wrote concerning gun control! Thank you for speaking up!

    I enjoy all Christmas candy, but my favorite is peanut butter balls covered in chocolate!

    Wishing you and your family a most blessed and Happy Christmas, and a new year filled with blessings overflowing!
    Hugs,
    Sue

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    1. Thanks, Sue! I have more to share with the updates, but that seems to be all I have to talk about lately. That and the news seems to be uppermost in my thoughts these days. I need a break from both! :) Merry Christmas to you and yours, too!

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  3. your home is beautiful and i love both trees. the project is looking great, and i like the fireplace and black surround. great idea. it is a good idea for all of you to take a break from all this work and enjoy the holidays. sorry about the ER visit and pray he will be fine. i agree 100 percent with every word you said about the guns and emigrants. especailly the part about blogging on it. i stay far away from politics because there are way to many people who can't agree and that includes me and dear hubby. i learned to shoot at age 8, not to hunt, because i would not. but for fun target pratice and for the Just In case like your gun.
    i do not bake or cook anything .. not for Christmas or ever. cooking is not my thing, but i will eat any and all of whatever you cook

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    1. Hi Sandra. I should have been more clear in my writing. J was in the hospital 3 or 4 days while they were testing his pump and trying to get his blood sugar under control. It was a scary time. Cooking is getting to be less and less my thing the older I get. Part of it is that I think I'm bored with cooking the same old things.

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  4. I too, agree with everything you have written above. As,for guns,my husband, brother, father, and the rest of the men in our relation are hunters, so I grew up with that also, and I think having a gun for protection, (in this day and age, with all the crazy in the world) just makes sense. I don't want to live in fear every time I leave my home, and I will hope that it never comes to that, but I am more aware of people and things going on around me when I do go out. I wish that the saying at Christmas "Peace On Earth" could ring true..maybe some day...but, I will enjoy this Christmas season, and I'll say Merry Christmas, to everybody, no matter who there are. I'm too old at age 76 to change my ways, nor would I do that anyway. Blessings and a Very Merry Christmas to you and your family.

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    1. Thanks for commenting, Bonnie. I thought after I wrote this post that I probably shouldn't do it and it might turn off many folks who just want happy posts, but we live in the real world, which isn't pretty right now and in fact down right scary. The idea that some want to take away our protection is also scary to me. Thanks again and Merry Christmas to you!

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  5. I really enjoyed reading this post and seeing all of the pictures. I love your floors and your tree is lovely. Your cats of course are so precious. I love how they were all perched on the table. I really like your new bathroom. The color of the walls is beautiful.
    I think it is so smart to take a good Christmas break from all the work you have been doing. I do hope your daughter's boyfriend will be OK; that did sound scary.
    I believe just as you about the politics and the gun issues. Both my husband and I have gun carrying permits. We don't normal carry a gun; but we do have one in the car when we are traveling. I don't think we need assault rifles either but we do need guns to protect ourselves and for hunting. Although we don't hunt anymore.
    Well my dear friend have a lovely Christmas Season with your family. I always smile when I see that you have left a post. Sending Christmas love and hugs your way!

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    1. Thank you, LeAnn! I love the color of the bathroom, too. I'm loving the new look and am wondering whose house I'm in when I'm in there. lol! It looked pretty sad before. Have a wonderful Christmas and thanks for your sweet comment!

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  6. Your home looks lovely.For some unknown reason,I am ready for Christmas,earlier than usual.Just have to get some food and of course prepare it.

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    1. Thanks, Ruth. Except for wrapping gifts, I'm ready this year, too. I've had some company that prompted me to get in gear and clean and decorate. Normally, I'm procrastinating as usual and putting off everything. lol! Merry Christmas to you!

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  7. Hi,
    I enjoyed your photos. Oh my, those sweet kitties.
    Thank you for sharing your believes. I am with you on this! I do hope our Nation will wake up!! Thank you for sharing!!
    Blessings to you and your family,
    Carla

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    1. Thanks, Carla! The kitties can be a royal pain, but we love them. They are part of our family. I hope our nation and politicians wake up, too, before it's too late. Merry Christmas and have a nice day!

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  8. Your home is lovely all decorated! The kittys look all comfy! Your blue color for your bathroom is wonderful. Bad/old wiring is scary so better safe than sorry on the project house.
    I think there is more going on terrorist wise than we the public realize. I find it really scary. I don't understand why we cannot close our borders for awhile until we get it all under control. To me it is like trying to clean house in a duststorm...oh yes and we have guns and I have a permit to carry and I will use my gun if I have to. I hope never to kill anyone but those terrorists just want us all dead:(

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    1. Thanks, Far Side! The wiring in that house is a nightmare. BG is going bananas trying to figure out it all out. The first owner of the house knew just enough about electricity to be dangerous and ran wires everywhere. One closet has 8 outlets! Makes no sense.
      I agree that there is more going on than the public has been told. We do need to stop people coming in for awhile. Now is the worst time of all!

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  9. Your home looks cozy and festive decorated for the season and it is nice to see the kitties! Glad you are taking a break from the project during this time. Favorite cookie/candy to make... I don't make them, I just eat them! CH is the cookie baker. My favorite cookie.. sugar cookie cutouts with icing, favorite candy... chocolate fudge, my Mom's recipe. Totally share your view on the issue of allowing people in our country who want to do nothing but harm us and also share your view on the gun issue. We do not hunt.

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    1. Pix! Good to see you! My favorite Christmas candy is divinity, but I never make it. I think another visit to the Amish bakery is in order. Thanks for stopping by and Merry Christmas to you and CH!

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    1. Hoping to keep toe in the door. At least, I can comment without getting whisked off. Glad to see that others are here so that's also a good sign. I appreciate your post very much. Everything looks great at your place and your daughter's. Your cats look so cozy under the tree. They've been waiting a long time to get it back.

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    2. Yay! Glad it's working now. Thanks for trying it out again!

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  11. Hi Cheryl.
    My goodness, you guys have been busy. Glad you are taking a teeny break :)

    As for us, my husband, and our two sons are all law enforcement officers... so we feel strongly about the issues facing our country, and the way that evil people use weapons against innocent citizens.

    Just wanting to wish you a very Merry Christmas.
    See you in the new year :)

    ~K.

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    1. Hi Kerin! Thanks for stopping by. I didn't remember that your hubby and sons were in law enforcement. They are brave men. Merry Christmas to you and your family!

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  12. I share your feelings about the terrorism threat! We just bought a handgun for us for Christmas. Next will be a conceal carry permit. You bet I would carry it with me if I went out alone!

    Glad you are mostly ready for Christmas. I am about done with DIY projects........last one was a trial.

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  13. Amen, Cheryl.

    On the bathroom... it looks great! The color is really refreshing :)

    I'm glad your family decided to relax and take a break. You all deserve it.

    xo,
    rue

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  14. Oops! Forgot to add that we make frosted sugar cookies every year :)

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  15. I grumbled a bit putting up decorations too. I have noticed that each year the decorations are less and less. Less I have to put away! :)
    I'm just grateful we live in a country where if you want to own a gun and can do so legally, you can! I don't have a gun, right now my defender is Tiah! :)

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  16. Hi Cheryl!

    I love your home, it looks so warm and inviting... :0) Your cats lounging around make me want to take a cat-nap. Your decorations are so pretty!

    DIY projects can be fun, but they also wear a person out. I'm so glad that you caught the wiring problem, I always worry about that kind of thing. Hope you can get your daughter moved in and settled after Christmas. It's just such a busy time of year, and her decision to wait sounds like a good one.

    Kudos to your way of thinking!! I totally agree with you, especially about guns. My husband has a concealed weapons permit, and is seldom without a gun. He is of course mindful about buildings where guns aren't allowed, but I really do feel safe when we are out at night or in big crowds when he is armed. The current situation we have in our country scares me to death, and I think we need to be very careful about letting people inside our boarders who only want to do us harm. I could go on and on, but won't, I know you understand what I mean.

    I hope you have a wonderful Christmas!!

    Hugs and Love,
    Barb

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  17. Cheryl, good morning! I read your post the other morning and had lots of wonderful thoughts for comments... I had to look back today to see if I ever posted them (which of course I didn't...sorry). I love everything, from the kitties on the table, the gorgeous bathroom, to that beautiful floor and fireplace. Very creative. As for guns...once again I totally agree. The assault rifles have no business being sold to the public...BUT other rifles and handguns..should never be taken away from us.

    Blessings to your SONday and Merry Christmas.
    Gert

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